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Thai bargirls often see relationships with Western men as a way to benefit themselves, their family and the Thai boyfriend or husband who is hiding in the shadows financially.In a country where women are not always afforded the same opportunities as men, some women choose to enter the world's oldest profession in an effort to make money to help their family or to ease the financial pressures they may have faced for much of their life.
These women attempt to secure their future - and that may mean lining up as many options (read: Western men) as they can, failing to disclose other relationships they may already be involved in or be less honest about their intentions with the man they're with. They may go on to choose one man who they feel can provide best for them, or they may simply try and make as much money as they can by building up a group of men to support them financially with regular payments, also known as "sponsors". Many of the women working in the bars actually have a Thai boyfriend or husband. They often say that they do not like Thai men but that is just a ruse to make Western men more comfortable with them.
These girls do not have an easy life and I do not begrudge them, nor judge them, when they make the ever so hard decision to go and work in the bar industry. That said, the calculated scamming and cheating that goes on, often playing with Western men's emotions and lives, is questionable.
They'll tell you they love you and that you're the only one in their life. This may be true and they may truly love you and worship you as only a Thai woman can. But sadly in many cases this couldn't be further from the truth.
If you are pursuing a relationship with a Thai bargirl and you suspect that things are not all that they seem, get her checked out before it's too late. Whether you met her in a naughty bar, a not so naughty bar, online, in a shop, on the street, in a massage parlour, in fact just about anywhere, if things don't feel right, get her checked out now.
The following services are offered:
- verifying if she is still working in a bar.
- verifying if she is "barfineable".
- verifying the existence of local boyfriends.
- verifying the existence of other foreign boyfriends.
- determining if she is pregnant.
- carrying out a character assessment.
- conducting surveillance.
- performing a missing person search.
- message delivery and translation.
* requests for other services will be considered.
* investigations can be undertaken in Bangkok, Pattaya, Hua Hin and Phuket. Other locations will be considered.
The following services are NOT undertaken:
- checking bank account records or mobile telephone records which is highly illegal in Thailand.
- checking guys working in gay bars. I have no problem with gay guys, but simply lack familiarity with such establishments to be able to adequately perform such tasks.
- recording conversations which is illegal in Thailand.
- email hacking or password retrieval which is also illegal.
So why don't you drop me an email and tell me about your situation. There's no need to name the girl or the bar where she works. I am happy to give you my thoughts and offer advice. I may be able to provide a few thoughts and ideas on ways for you to be able to check out what she is up to yourself without any need to conduct an investigation. There is no obligation at all!
